ick ugh, and groan

C's X husband is being super evil.. he's got a lawyer and is taking her to court for many boring reasons, which I'll spare you from.. but the end result is going to be a nasty nasty court battle with the kids stuck in the middle...it is likely this will put the kids in a position of having to "choose" who to live with and in their father's eyes that will equal who they love.  I'm terribly stressed over this, and really really wish I could go hide under a rock!  And now I know why I've refused to ever give up on my marriage, even through those roughest patches. Of course it also has to do with the fact that while Tim isn't superman all the time, he does try and he does love me.  X either never loved C or lost it pretty quickly.